Today In The News

It can be quite shocking to see ‘that’ case coming to light on the news today and skyhearing about how so many people were affected by ‘his’ abusive behavior, that goes back for so many years.

I cannot help but be reminded of my own challenges in this area and remember how it felt to be treated that way. Not only as it happened but the consequences it had through out my life, as it affected my relationships and my ability to be fully present in the world.

I am also reminded of the journey I have had to take to release myself from the past and to begin to create a new story for myself. I could stay attached to that old story, believing that was who I was and always would be, or I could make significant changes in my life and my attitudes towards myself, so as to re-create myself time and time again. As each story began to lessen its grip, I would find new and creative ways to liberate myself, dancing myself free and expressing all that I am.

It has meant sharing my healing work more fully with others, it has meant writing my story and having it published, it has meant putting myself on stage, in front of cameras and being interviewed for wonderful projects. I have learn’t to speak out, which has led me to speak about many topics on personal development and new growth, if I could speak out about the worst scenarios in my life, I felt I could share many other parts of who I was as well.

Because of my own abuse and determination to heal it, I may never have been in touch with the warrior I am with such determination to mend my life! Getting to know my own warrior rather than remain a victim is what has given me the most freedom.

I sometimes wonder who I might have been had I not been abused, I have often wished it never happened, but having learnt to accept and move on means it does not matter to me, I am who I am and have no desire now to change it. I’ve made mistakes, not always getting things just as they should be, I was very late having a career and a life I could call my own, I struggled to regain my own body and sexuality, but it has taught me so much and now I can fully empathise with others when they share their stories with me.

My passion is to help others grow and transform, giving  themselves permission to speak out, so this crime may become less and less. We will always have our challenges, but the more we speak out the less possible it will be for others to be hurt in the way we were, then our story will not lie dormant inside us as stagnant energy causing dis-ease, but will flow freely to create expressive and free lives, our innocence is reclaimed!

About Caroline Carey

Caroline is an English Grandmother and an aspiring crone~elder, an author of four books, a speaker and innovative and creative teacher, offering her work via workshops and gatherings online as well as internationally. By adapting the religious education insisted on by her family, she was able to recognise her own innate connection to God/Spirit and has been on a spiritual path since childhood. She is a champion of music, dance and poetry as healing tools since she was four years old and developed an innate understanding of the soul’s journey, a connection to physical embodiment through movement, theatre and the creative arts. Her work is harmonious with nature. Her journey has manifested as her own personal training into eldership and crone-hood, carrying the wisdom needed for stability and balance in individuals, relationships, families and communities. Mothering her six, now adult, children, gave Caroline the art of play, creativity, story-telling and opened up the deep surrender and unconditional love that motherhood can bestow. Caroline has trained in many modalities of dance, therapeutic and spiritual teacher trainings since 1986. She is a writer who has published her autobiography and four other books about her spiritual work. Her latest book, 'Middle Earth Wisdom' will be published soon. She lives in UK with her husband Ben Cole, a film-maker, a director who works with men’s initiation groups. They often offer work together, incorporating dance, presentation and film. Caroline is: A mother and grandmother A writer and poet A dancer A spiritual life coach A catalyst for change She is available to you for guidance
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